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"You and I Were Roommates Once" from Living, Together: Reimagining Community in the Age of Disconnection
Listen to Debutiful founder Adam Vitcavage’s debut essay, “You and I Were Roommates Once” from the anthology Living, Together: Reimagining Community in the Age of Disconnection, edited by Samantha Paige Rosen.
“I don’t have any interest in writing.”
I said that countless times at events and on the podcast whenever a writer asked me what I was working on.
Then Samantha Paige Rosen messaged me on Instagram about her forthcoming essay anthology, Living, Together: Reimagining Community in the Age of Disconnection.
That DM turned into my debut essay called “You and I Were Roommates Once” — an ode to my sister and the years we were roommates in Phoenix after she got divorced and I was a ball of depression and anxiety.
You can purchase the anthology, which features essays and interviews with Kristen Arnett, gabrielle korn, Sarah Thankam Mathews, and so many other bangers.





Fun fact that didn’t make the essay: I went to speech therapy in elementary school, which was a constant source of juvenile teasing. Reading outloud and public speaking are still things that give me anxiety.